Love my Future…

Yes, action is the answer to our dilemma. However, taking action is something we struggle to do without assistance. Assistance is often seen as a weakness instead of a strength. Here at Lovebeing we provide the tools and techniques to help you with the assistance you need to turn your weakness into a strength, changing the course of your life for ever. Allowing you, like that butterfly, to take flight in the present instead of staying stuck in the future.

Living in the future is something many of us do on a daily basis, as we either strive for long-term goals or worry anxiously about something catastrophic that could happen tomorrow. This brings us to an on-going dilemma of either preparing physically or more often mentally, creating different scenarios or possible outcomes to our not too distant future. Action is the answer to our dilemma.

Assistance for some is one of the hardest hurdles to jump. Asking for help can be the breaking of a promise you made to yourself, many moons ago. A promise attached to a past event or relationship which was so devastating that a promise had to be made in order to prevent the reoccurrence.

For example, as a child you accepted help or you witnessed someone else receiving help but then being betrayed or cheated on for accepting that help. You then made a vow to never receive help again. Or, conversely you had parents or a carer that didn’t allow you to do anything for yourself, and you remained helpless throughout your childhood. You then made a future vow to never receive help again, you have since then been making all your decisions without assistance.

These situations have created a series of holes in your life which you usually climb out of alone but then there are other times in which the hole is too deep and you need a helping hand. However, instead of crying out or asking for help, you sit in that dark hole alone, stuck and too stubborn to ask for assistance. That’s where we here at Lovebeing come in, we help you break free from the chains stubbornness that bind you and keep you stuck.

Planning for the future is one of the most important steps in creating a bright future for you and your loved ones. However, if we try to get through life without requesting or accepting help because we see ourselves as self sufficient, then we will find many a lonely moment even in a crowded room. In your mind you can plan for your whole future and not make a single step towards it. Planning in the mind is just a dream if it remains in our mind.

One of the keys to life is to the enjoy the moment, dipping into the past and the future when we need to and not forgetting our fellow humans and the planet in the process. The Butterfly doesn’t attempt to fly when its wings have not fully formed.

Plan for the future, don’t live in the future in your mind either worrying or dreaming, without Action.